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27 Definite Signs That He Is Cheating On You

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The question, “ how to tell if he is cheating on you” has become almost the talk of every relationship. Cheating is one of the major challenges many relationships and marriages have, and if you don’t know the signs that he is cheating on you, you might end up being used in the relationship.

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Often couples go through rough patches, and our interests in each other fluctuate based on how comfortable you feel like a partner. The question is  “how you can tell if your spouse is seeing another woman? What are the tell-tale signals that he’s cheating?

Below are the 27 signs to look out for when he starts cheating on you.

HE IS ALWAYS ONLINE AND ON HIS HIS PHONE MORE THAN USUAL

Keep an eye on him if he becomes engrossed in his tablet. This is a big concern, particularly if he’s being deceptive about it. This is a red flag especially if he gets upset if you contact him or look at his phone.

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A guy who is fully committed to the relationship who does not have another woman in the picture will have nothing to hide. He won’t be endlessly calling someone else or even behaving strangely.

If you notice that his mind is constantly diverted elsewhere, whether to his phone or the computer, it is a sign that he may be communicating with someone else online.

If he becomes angry about it, refuses to tell you anything, and wants to conceal it from you, this is an indication that he is cheating or is about to cheat.

HE SUDDENLY BECOMES SO BUSY WITH WORK

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If he suddenly needs to go out of town more often, or even staying up late at work too often, there may be cause for alarm.

If he has just got promoted or there are some changes in his work, this may not be a cause for concern. But if you suspect that isn’t the case and he starts becoming too busy, then something is wrong somewhere.

 If there is a new lady at work, this might be a chance for him to spend time with her away from the office, getting to know her, and probably get more intimate with him.

HE SUDDENLY STARTS AVOIDING INTIMACY WITH YOU

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This is not the same as not having sex; it is about displaying affectionate and care

If a man cheats because he’s in love with someone new, he may feel as if he’s cheating on his new love with you, particularly if he’s a faithful guy by nature and cheating is new to him.

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Even if he is not in love with the person he is sleeping with, anyone who is cheating will feel insecure behaving intimately with a partner because it contradicts their cheating conduct.

Unless he’s a complete sociopath, he’ll always have feelings for you, which will make him feel bad. When he is cheating on you, displaying romantic acts toward you will make him feel much worse.

HE EITHER WANTS TO HAVE SEX ALL THE TIME OR  AVOID HAVING SEX WITH YOU

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Sex is a means of intimacy, so avoiding sex with you may be related to the previous argument.

However, he may be refusing sex with you because he is getting enough with someone else. His sexual appetite, on the other hand, may increase as a result of the affair causing a spike in testosterone. If it’s a way for him to deal with his guilt.

The main point is that his sexual appetite and attitudes have changed. Maybe he no longer wants to have sex, or maybe he has a voracious appetite for it. Keep an eye out for any deviations from his usual routine.

HE NEEDS A LOT OF PRIVACY 

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Everyone requires some level of privacy, although people’s privacy varies. Some people don’t mind exchanging their email passwords or keeping their Facebook accounts open, while others do. 

There’s an explanation he used to leave his phone open and on the table when he left the office, but now it’s still closed and he takes it with him, or he used to leave his accounts open when he walked away from the machine, but now he signs out first.

Privacy in his personal space is also significant to him. If he used to want to see you as soon as he got home from work, but now he wants to head straight to the bedroom for “me” time or a nap, it might be an indication he’s cheating.

Finally, relationships are about being transparent and communicating. You are attempting to build a life together. If he seems to be available and sharing before, but is now suddenly locking you out, this is a major red flag.

HE SUDDENLY STARTS PICKING UP FIGHT WITH YOU

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If he’s been more furious at you and you’re not sure why it may be that he’s feeling guilty and trying to make you the bad guy to relieve his shame.

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When a man feels that he has seen someone to replace you, he practically picks up a fight in anything you do.

At this point, you cannot please him, because he despises anything you do and picks up a fight with you at any slightest provocation even when you are trying to please him.

HIS MOOD SWING BECOME SO VISIBLE 

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A new friendship can be thrilling and enjoyable, but it can also be stressful. If your guy is cheating, he can be cheerful and upbeat one minute and solemn and sad the next.

He will be ecstatic for her one moment and terribly guilty the next because of you.

Cheaters are unable to have completely calm moods and the allure of doing an affair is the thrill, the crazy ups, and downs. And then there are the mixed emotions: curiosity, shame, confusion, and the fear about where to go next (stay with you or be with her). It would be difficult for him to keep this from you.

HE GETS VERY DEFENSIVE WHEN YOU ASK IF HE IS CHEATING

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If he isn’t cheating and you show fear, he won’t get enraged right away. I’m not saying he won’t be hurt or offended by the idea, or that he won’t be offended if you think that about him, but he won’t instantly go off the handle and threaten you. Whether he does, he certainly protests excessively.

Of course, this applies if it’s the first time you inquire if he’s cheating. If you’ve been cheated on before and this is a major problem for you, and you’re always accusing him of adultery, it will finally make any man furious and defensive. However, if this is the first time you’ve discussed it and he goes nuts, he’s a man who is genuinely guilty.

A man who isn’t cheating would, of course, refute it. However, it would be a genuine rejection. When his denial is theatrical and over-the-top, it is because he is putting on a display.

HE HARDLY SAYS I LOVE YOU

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A cheating guy would most likely feel uncomfortable showing you love and engaging in intimate acts such as holding hands and kissing you, and this extends to his spoken words as well.

If he is usually vocal in saying I love you and complimenting you, and those three things are no longer spoken and the congratulations have dried up, it indicates that he is physically distancing himself from you.

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This could be that he is sexually involved with someone else, or if the person he is seeing is only for sex, it could mean he really loves you and feels bad about cheating. He is betraying you, but he does not want to betray you with his language by using statements that contradict his deeds.

THE DAILY ROUTINE CHANGES 

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This could be related to any of the other symptoms listed here. Have his working hours shifted noticeably? Maybe he’s working longer, or maybe he’s coming in early so he can leave earlier but still get home at the same time, freeing up his afternoons to meet someone else.

Maybe he’s waking up early to go to the gym, or maybe he’s working over lunch instead of sharing time with you. A small difference in his everyday life may be that he used to call you every day at lunch or on his way home from work, but he no longer does.

Human beings are creatures of habit. After being around someone for a time, you get acquainted with their routines. Everything is wrong if he suddenly adopts a whole different schedule

HE STARTS HIDING HIS FINANCE 

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He used to keep his credit card balances and phone bills out in the open, but now he’s very cautious about both statements and receipts. If he is spending money on someone new, he does not want you to know or doubt it.

Have his spending habits improved whether you happen to see receipts or statements? A man who is cheating is likely to spend more money, whether it is on new clothing for himself, presents for the woman he is cheating with, nights out, or even trips together. He won’t want you to know, so he’ll continue to conceal his finances, even though he used to be completely honest about them.

HE STARTS CARING ABOUT HIS APPEARANCE THAN USUAL

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If he unexpectedly becomes re-interested in his image when you’re in a relationship, he’s obviously not out to please you.

Has he entered a gym on the spur of the moment? Is he going to slim down? If he had never been interested in working out before, he might be pretending to impress someone young.

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Is he putting up with a new hairstyle? Shopping for new clothing and dressing up? Maybe he’s wearing a new cologne that you didn’t pick out for him?

These are all typical male habits when attempting to impress women (you may recall any of them from when you first began dating him!) 

HE LOOKS VERY DISTRACTED 

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Your once attentive lover no longer looks you in the eyes. You hear yourself repeating yourself to him when he isn’t paying attention.

He finds it difficult to remain engaged in the conversation, and he is always looking over your shoulder. If he’s cheating on you, you’ll see that he’s been estranged from your relationship in a variety of ways.

According to  David Klow, “if your partner’s behaviors begin to change, it may be a symptom of infidelity.”

To a fair point, love can still be unconditional, which means we instinctively want to give our partners the respect they need in order to make them happy.

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Paying attention to and “being in the moment” with your companion does not feel like a conscious effort; it should come effortlessly because you enjoy spending time with them.

And, while your partner may have displayed this type of activity in the past, he does not do so as much these days.

You don’t know why it happened, but there came a moment when he started being all there for you all the time.

There’s always something bothering him, an excuse for him to be on his laptop, cut dates short, or leaving your place sooner than planned.

He may attribute it to living an active and complete life, but you know that there have been no significant improvements in his hobbies or occupations to account for this dramatic shift in behavior.

HE PRACTICALLY STOPS INVITING YOU OUT WITH HIS FRIENDS

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A lover who adores you will always be ready to show off his new girlfriend.

Whether it’s to his old college buddies or his colleagues, he wants everybody to remember he’s got a great girlfriend — even though it’s just to rub it in their faces.

When he is with someone else, he is less likely to want to spend his “extra” time with you. This may be caused by many things including

He’s not telling you anything about the get-together, either: he’s not sure who will be there, when he’ll be home, or what the plan is.

There are all indications that he is attempting to be innocent to conceal his affair.

If you keep on leaving, he would become enraged. It’s much easier for him to shield you from seeing what’s actually going on.

MORE EXPENSES 

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Cheating can be costly. There will be dinners, snacks, and maybe hotel rooms. Whether the lady he’s with is still cheating, they won’t have somewhere to go but back, which is expensive.

And if she’s single and has her own place for him to visit, he’ll want to please her, which normally entails lavish dates, roses, and presents.

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If your boyfriend makes a lot of money even if you don’t have shared budgets, you do not consider the extra spending right away. However, the costs will begin to mount over time. Have an eye out for letters from the credit card provider that arrive on the doorstep – they may be reminders that he hasn’t paid his bills on time.

Another sign is if he seems to be constantly low on cash, which he was never before. Maybe he has stopped recommending your regular Friday night pizza, or he has bought you a cheap present for your birthday.

At first, there might be little indications, such as purchasing an inexpensive bottle of wine rather than an expensive one on a date night.

If those little details start to add up and you can’t think of any other explanation why he’d be concerned about money, you might have a problem.

HE STARTS FINDING FAULTS

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If he begins to dwell on supposed faults in the relationship, this is a symptom of infidelity.

He may be feeling irritated because you are not like the girl with whom he is having an affair.

This is especially true if he begins to ask why you aren’t having enough fun or why you aren’t good in the bedroom.

When a relationship begins, even though it is just an affair, it may be raunchy and romantic.

Focusing on your shortcomings may also be a form of animosity towards you, as he is blaming his cheating ways on you

YOUR OPINION NO LONGER MATTER

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He actually does not care what you think, there is no other way to say it.

Anything he does seems to be a bare necessity or an afterthought. When you go out to eat, he makes no attempt to dress well for you.

When you have an argument, he would not go out of his way to work you out and comfort you.

He doesn’t go out of his way to make you smile and feel special. It’s as if he doesn’t care what you think of him.

The biggest kicker is that you can see him attempting other stuff.

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On one of his enigmatic boys’ nights out, you’ll sometimes see him wearing the shirt you used to love.

He doesn’t care what you think, there’s no other way to put it.

These are obvious signs that he is having an affair.

 YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT HIS LIFE ANYMORE

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You know little about your boyfriend’s life when you first began dating.

He’d call you at the end of the day and remind you all that had happened at work.

Throughout the day, he will give you random pictures and ask you how your day was going.

You’d be his go-to guy for everything, both good and bad.

For a while, the friendship seemed to be totally open. You know what happened in his day because he freely (and happily) shared it with you.

.You’d learn new details of his life from friends or (worse). These are all signs of cheating.

HE BUYS GIFTS OUT OF GUILT

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Nothing says “I love youlike a gift 

There hasn’t been a special day in a while, and your wedding is only a few months away, but you’re still getting nice presents from your boyfriend.

You’re not only getting ordinary gifts; you’re getting rare, pricey items that you’d only dream to get on appropriate relationship milestones.

This will normally be cause for celebration. Your lover is lavishing you with kisses, which demonstrates how much he adores you.

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Yet something isn’t quite right here. You have a gut feeling about it. The unexplainable gifts are just one thing, but you know there’s more.

He is more ready to please while still being aloof.

He’s been increasingly territorial while still becoming even more attached to your relationship

The gifts are clearly his way of making amends about something.

HE TALKS ABOUT THE FUTURE DIFFERENTLY 

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It’s not ideal that he used to dream about the future and use the word “us,” but now thinks about something he needs to do alone.

Even if he claims that he does not want to be selfish in his plans, be careful that he could simply be shielding his tracks.

In the end, he may be a greedy companion who is only concerned about his own future.

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There’s a fair explanation he’s not including you in his plans. One of the difficulties of suspecting someone of cheating on you is that your mate might be very good at justifying why things are the way they are.

If you don’t keep an eye on your relationship it could just walk out the door without you.

HE BATH FREQUENTLY

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Dane Cook, a comedian, demonstrated in one of the stand-up performances that he had to sneak into the bathroom after cheating to wash the glitter and scent off himself. 

Other signs that he is cheating on your includes: 

  • His phone’s location is turned off
  • He starts  having private conversations
  • He has a sudden change in tastes
  • He hates stuff about you that he used to love
  • He always feels guilty when you do nice things for him
  • He always]ys talk someone

 

 

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